There are things that happen in our lives that define us. There are the days and the events that change our lives forever. These are the days that we know in our heart that there is no turning back to the way things once were. They are the best and the worst days of our lives. These are the moments that we grow, that we learn that it is all going to happen whether we want it to, or not. This is when we need to embrace the changes, hold on, and trust that we will understand why one day. And know on some level that we will survive and heal eventually.