What if a spirit doesn't make sense at the time of a reading?

I will tell you that it is extremely rare for me to have someone come through that doesn't make sense. It has honestly only happened a handful of times in over a thousand readings I have done at this point. If that happens, it drives me crazy and I can't let it go. Lol. I will keep going back to that client in the reading trying to understand and see if maybe I have misinterpreted their relation to the person or to make sure they haven't forgotten someone from the past. Eventually, I will see people have an "A-HA" moment when they realize who it is. But, there have been a few times that it has happened and they leave and I don't know if it ever did make sense afterwards unless they call me. It is very easy to have horse blinders on during a reading because we are so anxious hear from certain people that we forgot other losses that we may have had or that someone close to us has. It is quite common for someone to come through to give a message to someone else other than the client in front of me or on the other side of the phone. It happens all of the time.

So, a couple of weeks ago I did a reading for a woman who had one person who came through that she couldn't identify. But, it was never resolved during the reading. During her reading a young male came through who was in his 20's/early 30's. He was a "friend" energy and he was not related to her. He had had a tragic passing and it felt like a suicide. He had actually been quite a charismatic and funny young man. He said his name was Ben. He very much wanted someone to know he was ok. I picked up a few other traits and that was about it. She couldn't figure it out, but I told her to hold onto it because that rarely happens to me and I am confident about this man. So, I hoped he would make sense later...or we would see that I am just freaking crazy!

A week later I got a phone call from that client. She said that she had to call me because she found out who our mystery man was! I gave a great sigh of relief! I tend to forget readings fairly quickly, but I remembered this one just because she was the one client who had a mystery person. She went on to tell me that her ex-boyfriend whom she hadn't spoken to in a long time called her the night before and asked if he could come over and talk. She agreed and he came over. This part is relevant. Her reading was on a Friday a 12pm the week before. As they were speaking, he said that his best friend, Ben had committed suicide last Friday. He was found at 9am. That was 3 hours prior to her reading on the same day! It hit her like a truck and she played him the recording from our reading which obviously gave him quite a shock.

Not only was he identified, but it was a lesson and a reminder to always hold onto information after reading even if it doesn't make sense at the time of the reading.  His cross over was so quick that his soul could know that someone who could connect with his friends and family was going to be near a medium the same day he passed so that he could pass a message through. Crazy, right?! I have seen a lot, but even this one had me shaking my head in amazement. Some part of him knew that his message would get passed on. Maybe he even pushed his best friend to call that ex -girlfriend so that that they could make that connection. What is so fascinating about this particular experience is that not only did he cross over immediately, but that he could communicate within hours of passing. So, you never know who is going to come through as crazy as I may sound at the time!


Never throw information away just because it doesn't make sense at the time of a reading.

Everything that comes out in a reading should make sense. There will be those one or two things that don't though. I always tell my clients to hold onto those and see if they present themselves because you never know when they will become clear. Here is something that happened this week that was just a reminder as to how amazing the communication from our loved ones can be. This week I had a woman come in whose mother came through in her reading. Some big stuff came out in the reading that there had been questions about for decades. It was incredibly heavy and healing. Her mother brought through a couple of names that came in crystal clear. But, at the time did not make sense in the midst of all of these pieces of information that she came forward with. I told my client to hold onto to them and see if they make sense after the reading. Her mother also brought through a red car. It looked small, but I didn't know if this was a toy or a real car. It didn't really make sense and my client doesn't have kids so it wasn't in reference to a possible gift from mom or something like that. It was random regardless. I mentioned it even though I hesitated and let it go. I knew it was either a piece of "trash" that I picked up or it would present itself later. I told her to hold onto that one as well and just see what happens. I then receive an email the following day that when my client got home, she went though her mom's high school yearbooks and on one the pages was a note written by a girl with one of the exact names I mentioned. So she looked her up online. She found information about her and found that the other name that came through was this high school friend's mother. She is now getting in contact with the high school friend who may have even more answers about what was discussed in the reading as all the questions pertained to things that occurred while her mom was most likely in high school. The red car?....her dog was digging in the dirt later that day. When she went to see what her dog was doing, guess what was in the hole? A little red car. A sign from mom to let her know she is present and she even left a little gift.